Camping With Kids

Fires are like babies and toddlers. Never leave them unattended.

Even though you've already taught your children not to play with matches at home, camping trips are a good time for a refresher course. Open fires are irresistible for many kids. Not just for looking, but for building, setting, poking, even touching.

Different families take different approaches to fire. Older, responsible children may he allowed to help participate in all phases, including tending. Some children can be trusted topoke and prod a bit, but the issue can get sticky among siblings of different maturities. Often the safest bet is a strict"hands- and sticks-off" policy. Set your own limits and stand by them.

While campfires are the highlight of many family camping trips, they're not always permitted. Some areas are too fragile, conditions may be too dry, or heavy usage and abuse of resources may have forced a ban. Even when fires are permitted, they're not always fun. On breezy evenings, as the song goes, smoke gets in your eyes, and kids may have little tolerance for the resulting sting. Try going without-you may be pleasantly surprised by the different sights and sounds you'll see and hear, everything from wildlife to stars. If you still want a warm glow, try a candle.