Keeping Night Camping Fears at Bay

One of the best ways to keep your kids amused at bedtime and to help allay their fears is to give each their own flashlight. Kids adore flashlights (take plenty of batteries and also a spare flashlight in case one gets lost or misplaced). At some point you may have to announce that it's "light's-off time," but give your kids plenty of goofing-off time. Hey, what better time is there to learn how to make hand-shadow pictures?

For young kids, keep as close to their normal home bedtime routine as possible, and they'll feel much more at ease in this strange environment. Bring along that special stuffed animal or storybook. Extend your reading time once everyone is tucked in and your kids may fall asleep easily, or at least feel relaxed.

Once those flashlights are off, be as reassuring as possible to calm any fears. Squeeze closer, or put your child between you and your spouse. If a child complains about spooky noises, reassure them that the woods are naturally full of many sounds. Try not to investigate them at all, because this gives the impression that you too, may be concerned. Of course, do investigate if something sounds truly alarming. I have been awakened by the sounds of an exploring moose, and yes, the creaks and crackles were scary!

One game to play with frightened children is to pretend that you are a family of wild animals, say foxes, tucked in for the night. Ask your child to imagine what that fox feels like, what that fox may be doing, and what the fox's den may look like.

May your tent soon be full of sleeping children. And may your spouse not keep you awake with snoring!